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Heather Gould's avatar

I have such an issue sticking to boundaries, and I don't know why. I've finally stopped getting angry and cry every time he drinks - which is a big deal for me. However, I always feel the need to just let him know that I know, like that makes any difference in how either of us feel. I'll ask him "did you drink today" - if he lies I'll call him out anyway. I just continue to set myself up for disappointment, and can't seem to let go of expectations. I know I'm not alone but I feel so isolated and like I'm doing life in solitary.

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Yvonne's avatar

because there is drinking going on every single night, my boundary is that I won't be around him or interact with him when drinking. he's upset b/c I quit having sex w/him......well, HE'S ALWAYS DRUNK...............

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